Thousands of woman all over the world start their day by praying. Allot of these woman pray for a baby. They beg and plead to God to give them children. Some of these woman also spend thousands of rands and dollars, going for treatment so that they too can feel how it feels to hold in their arms a new born baby.
Others want children so bad that they commit themselves to raising other's children, they adopt children, and even though they don't share dna or blood, they love those children with all their hearts.
Then some young, ignorant girl comes along, calling her baby a thing, telling every one how naughty she is (bare in mind that she is not yet a week), and complaining non stop about what the baby is, and isn't doing!
Don't they understand how lucky they are, to be able to have a baby.
Another case of absolute insanity is when a mother, in the baby room of church, tells you her baby laughs at her when she gets spanked, so now the mother is trying to think of another way of punishment!
WHAT!! How naughty can a baby be? They don't even understand what they do. They don't know what is right and wrong!!
It isn't always easy, and some days we all want to give up. But don't treat your baby like pet. You can't go to the store and get a new one.
Love them, care for them, make them feel special.
Babies cry period, the sooner you find a soothing way for both you and the baby to deal with it, the better.
Don't pray and wish for a baby, if you are only going to put it in a cot, and let it cry itself to sleep.
Pray and wish for a baby, when you are ready to change all you are, and all you believe. When you are ready to give up on fancy clothes and sleep.
Make sure your mind is ready, before you get your body ready. Your heart must want a baby, not your head.
Be careful what you wish for, babies aren't dolls, you can't just put them in the toy box, or switch them of!
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